Rhythm
Long ago I have read the story of Musashi Miyamoto who at the age of 13 killed a much older opponent by unexpectedly stalling the confrontation by unexpectedly stalling the confrontation. First he arrived late, then he took time to remove his shoes, then he first warmed up... By the time he did get to fighting his opponent was already furious and made that last fatal mistake of eagerly rushing in. Jesse Enkamp (we all know him, right?) told a story of himself getting out of a confrontation by telling a really hostile individual about the height of a wall. In the art of fighting we become aware of the nature and course of events. We know what is in place, what is to be expected- and from there we find the opportunities to do the unexpected. When working with your enemies you will use these tactics to prevent them from functioning properly. At present I have a feeling that employers and managers in the workplace often use these tactics on the people that are actually...